I love this women and want to marry her, Should i??? trying to be careful?

If you are going to move, now is the time to do it. Your boys are young enough to withstand the change. The older one will like the attention he will get from the girls, being the new boy in school. Take them on a trip over the summer to her place and see how they respond. The thing is, is that she is 22 at the start of her career. How will you handle it with her being around younger men? Are you secure with this situation? Your boys will be fine. Are you ready for the change? Go and spend a week or so with her and your boys. Check out the schools your boys will be attending. Maybe you won't like it there. Go check it out!