Friday, July 15, 2011

My fiance hit me out of nowhere :( I'm so confused. Please help me!?

I feel like I should tell you to run away from him and never turn back. But he has been under a lot of stress. So i think you should sit him down and ask him what happened and why he hit you. He may be sorry, but that's what they all say after it's done. Give him another chance and see what happens. But don't take being beat up on. It's not fun being in an abusive relationship, and remember that he has no right, whether you all are engaged or married or what, to beat up on you. You seem like a strong woman and you should keep that. Talk to him about it, and if he ever does it again leave. Because this time it could have been just so much pent up anger, but next time it could be worse. When you talk to him suggest he joins a gym, or a kickboxing class or something, maybe you all could do it together. That way you could be together doing something fun, but at the same time he's getting his anger and frustration out. (plus you're learning how to defend yourself). I hope this helps. Good luck with him, and the wedding! :)

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